The Newborn: Now whats?
- Jamie Sorenson
- Jul 28
- 2 min read
The Newborn: Now whats? Do you remember that overwhelming moment when you first got home from the hospital with your newborn, feeling a rush of emotions as you thought, "Now what? Is this real life?" I can relate to that feeling all too well! It was a whirlwind of emotions—one minute I was in awe of this tiny human, and the next, I was struck with sheer panic, thinking, "Holy crap, what do I do with this little being?! How do I even keep it alive?" The scent of a newborn is something indescribably wonderful, almost intoxicating, and I found myself constantly marveling at it. It's such a surreal and strange transition, shifting from a life of sleeping in on Saturday mornings with my dog, free to lounge around without a care in the world, to a new reality where it felt like it was all baby, all the time.
This significant life transition is one of the primary reasons why I chose to work in reproductive psychiatry. I am deeply passionate about supporting patients through this profound change. Each case I encounter challenges me to think critically and empathetically, and honestly, it’s a delight to engage with individuals experiencing such a pivotal moment in their lives. The transition to parenthood is possibly one of the biggest shifts people will ever face, filled with a rollercoaster of emotions that can include weirdness, discomfort, joy, irritability, sadness, and loveliness. The spectrum of feelings that arise when welcoming a baby into your life is vast, and I love being there to help navigate through all of it.
It’s essential to be gentle with yourself during this period of adjustment. I know firsthand how easy it is to fall into intense shame spirals, questioning your abilities and feeling overwhelmed. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. There is support available for you, and it’s crucial to reach out and connect with others who understand what you’re going through.
For resources and help, I encourage you to check out:
FL BH Impact:
Postpartum Support International:
International Society of Reproductive Psychiatry Directory: https://reproductivepsychiatry.com/locate-a-specialist/
OMG this!
I always try to make a point when I visit a new mom: the first thing I ask is what SHE needs... Not to see the baby. If she says she's fine I usually look for dishes or laundry that I can just pick up and do.. Pump parts I can clean and sterilize... And always bring her water. I sit down as close as I can and listen. Everyone else is paying attention to the baby and as the new mom you're expected to just sit there and smile and talk about how wonderful it all is when all you want is sleep, a shower and some noise canceling headphones.